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My wife never wants to have sex


It takes both of you to make it work and it is mutually beneficial for both parities. The Bible pretty much says that married folks should be having sex and lots of it.

No, really it says that the only time to refrain from sex is for a period of time for fasting and praying and that is only for a period of time, otherwise the devil will use that to keep you apart.

Out of everyone I know, the married people have the suckiest sex lives. Why are the single people having all the good sex? Most men can get over things pretty quickly. If Jeanette and I fight, I can get over it and make up in minutes and be totally fine to have sex that night.

Their emotions are involved and they tend to put My wife never wants to have sex some more walls then most men.

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This could be how she lost her virginity. This could be a situation involving abuse or rape at a younger age. She thought marriage would solve this, but these issues have never been addressed thoroughly and have caused her to just not be interested. My gut is that if you could help her process some of these things or encourage some counseling, then that could be a great start to help her find the My wife never wants to have sex she needs.

I was taught growing up that sex was bad. Talk through this stuff. Talk about sex being a great thing. Its more than that. We live in a world where sex with your self masturbation has become the norm, and most men bring this into their marriage.

Masturbation has taught you one thing: It leaves something out: You get off in your favorite position and think sex is all about what you like. If you approach sex like that? She wants you on top not just behind her all the time. My suggestion was to communicate. Let her be involved in what she likes, how she likes it, and let her reach orgasm. Really work to achieve this together and if not at the same time make sure both of you have the option.

Oh, and one last bit of advice: I am not going to bore you with the crock pot vs. Women need to be touched, kissed, and hugged all the time, not just when you want action.

This will go far. My My wife never wants to have sex loves to have sex and I think we have a great sex life. I am going to recommend trying to have sex every other day. I have been married 15 years and that is an expectation and goal we both have set.

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My wife is done after about 9pm. Guys, you might have to get on her schedule. These are the walls I talked about earlier. Some of them might not have anything to do with you, but some of them sure do. Pay attention to her. Look for signals and ask. Run towards resolution and get in the sack. The devil is laughing when us married folks sleep in separate beds. Have you told her you loved her? Have you told her she is beautiful?

Have you told her she is sexy and you still get excited when she steps out of the shower naked? Show her, tell her, and keep the lights on once in a while during sex so you can remind her that you love looking at her.

You start looking at porn to get what you need and then your sex life is non-existent. So you see the problem there. My wife never wants to have sex is getting you nowhere.

And when she does initiate, never turn her down. There might be more, but my plane is landing and I have to turn off my computer. This article was originally published here and is used with permission.

Nice try, decent web site. It would be so much easier than figuring out the opposite sex. But this is so aggravating the double standard. Very easy to see why you never get laid. You get turned down because there is something you are not doing right.

Figure it out instead of whining and shooting down possible answers. Thats a bs answer. I think some of these points are valid…. Pretty much the complete flip opposite to men — You need to tap into her emotional side. Man…id be in heaven.

We average about 10 times…in a year! Its been this way for 30 years. Women hold the power and they know it. The number of times a couple has sex is determined by the spouse with the lower sex drive…normally the woman. Why do you think there is so much interest in sports,fishinghunting, NASCAR, strip bars, golfing…men are trying to fill their time with things that take their minds off of not getting sex. Her live language is gifts and she gets everything she wants, I need one thing and have told her that and get zero!

Cause you want to stay pure and trustworthy and yet is hard! Many women refuse sex because their man is looking at instamodels, porn, coworkers on fb, etc. Apparently this is a common problem with no resolve. Men are left with the My wife never wants to have sex burden of reprogramming our natural desire to simply have sex unabated.

Hell, this post might as well promote prostitution and strip clubs…. No wonder countries that practice polygamy have higher success marriage success rates.

Now, the average is zero.

I am going insane i think. I am an emotional wreck and I have reached the crossroads in my life where i have to make the decision to fix my failing marriage or press the reset button and start anew.

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Any advice would be greatly appreciated. And Im a Christian. My husband never initiates. He doesnt musturbate either. Its basically as though he doesnt like it. The Bible says a man should lead the wife. He does not lead. I try to do my humanly best to respect him and be loyal. I never bad mouth him My wife never wants to have sex, train our children to respect him as the main authority. He never grew up in an atmosphere where the man is number one in the home. He is uncomfortable being in charge.

I only learned about proper Christian roles a year and a half ago. I am learning and growing and he is still upset with me as like a little child.

I feel helpless sometimes. I guess what Im frustrated with is he hasnt woken up and taken the reigns yet… nor does he have any interest… he is one that tries and gives up at slightest resistance and never tries again. Men you want more sex? My wife never wants to have sex the Man of the house!

Carl Thomas Carl is a pastor, husband, and father. He works and writes for XXXchurch. You Might Also Like. "My wife doesn't want sex." Are you wondering why this is the case for your marriage? Find out why and what to do about it. Aug 12, HUSBANDS: This Is Why Your Wife Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You.

Sex was validation for my self-worth, not a mutual act of.

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